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The football book is strangely tedious, yet strangely irresistible. Its title raises questions. Dear England already belongs to a hit theatrical production, an upcoming TV show, and a open letter penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England isn’t officially tied to those. It stands as an anomaly in the Dear England Multiverse, a book about guidance: a traditionally uninspiring top-level coach trope that the author adheres to persistently, employing the words “leader”, “leading” or “management” at least 500 times across the book’s entirety.

Themes Posed

“What are leaders? What is the role of a leader? What insights do leaders have?” he asks in the opening, setting out his position, but declining to explore “Why are leaders?”, topics likely reserved for a follow-up publication.

Additionally, this publication contains a significant gap at its core. It’s an exercise in subtly confrontational self-justification, in nearly but not entirely saying the actual thing, hopping nimbly from lingering grievance to raw emotion across a assortment of pie charts, business clichés and references about historical figures.

Immersion

Engaging with the text is like eavesdropping on your loved ones having a mannered but intensely emotional argument in the nearby area while you’re attempting to concentrate on a corporate presentation named “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also challenging to put down, as Southgate keeps drifting near to something you genuinely want to hear about, before suddenly shifting focus.

Insights

There are typically news headlines in books in this genre, explained by the rapt obsession with the role of England manager. The best examples encompass: the manager decided he was certainly going to resign as England manager after supporters hurled beer glasses at him at the European Championship; he came very close to withdrawing from the game at mid-match against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his players were racially abused; he invented the idea of set-piece coaches and all teams in the English football is now copying him; he has now misplaced his enthusiasm for football, a surprising revelation briefly included in a short passage at the final part.

Managing England through a period of rage, aspiration, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a brutal ordeal. The bruises are evidently still raw.

Generic Content

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is flooded with an AI-style linguistic mush of commonplace management talk. Advanced copies of this publication were distributed with critics under confidentiality clauses ahead of launch, probably out of concern someone might disclose that “tough talks can, by their inherent quality, be challenging”, that you should always look before you leap, that leadership happens where change meets compassion.

Emotional Core

There is however authentic feeling within. Leading England through a era of rage, hope, political ferment and confinement was a harsh ordeal. The scars are obviously still fresh, though conveyed in a terminology-heavy reimagining of the classic leader narrative: demonstrating my accuracy about all matters from the start.

Detailed Instances

Even publication’s initial chapter, disguised as gripping recollections of the championship match of the tournament, is all about how successful Southgate really was at player changes (the major criticism of Southgate revolving around he was not successful at altering the lineup). Later, he explores extensive analysis about how he managed the championship match of 2021 impeccably – notably the unsuccessful tiebreaker – because he adhered to a set protocol, which implies that throwing on youthful talents at the last moment to take the biggest shot of their careers was logical and accurate.

That approach was confirmed by a victorious penalty decider against the Swiss team four years later after a game where England spent the entire match looking as if they were attempting to wear a pullover the backwards. “The control we exerted in that penalty decider was absolutely exhilarating,” he notes, while comparing the display to elite military units killing a notorious figure. Goodness.

Avoided Revelations

On the occasions we do get close to a disclosure, he retreats from naming names or sharing the juice. We hear there were difficult England squad members who required more attention, possibly because they were spoilt during the beginning of their time in football. But as you lean forward eagerly, he is quickly veering off into an area named a leadership concept, which asserts that rather than a collection of attributes or ideals, team environment is in fact something that is formed by, gah, enough, no more.

Notable Sections

Included in the stronger sections are when Southgate discusses about the piecemeal nature of fostering resilience in youth, or how he sought to define Englishness more clearly and more constructively than any public personality in the limelight. Best of all, there is a genuinely gripping account of that traumatic match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s African heritage squad members were viciously abused (and later supported vigorously by their manager).

Genuine Ending

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